I’m 30, married, with one kid, and I make $160k a year. I’ve had a financial advisor since I was 25 and bought a $2 million whole life insurance policy at 26, before marriage and having a child. I’ve been earning six figures since I was 22 and wasn’t sure how to handle my money, so I got a financial advisor. She sold me this policy, presenting it as an investment vehicle since I was already maxing out my 401k and Roth IRA.
Back then, I didn’t have dependents, but I felt like the financial savior of my family. My parents made huge sacrifices to raise me, and their finances are still a mess. If I died, I wanted them taken care of with this policy. Also, my job was dangerous, and people have died doing it, so I felt okay with the coverage.
Now, after four years and a career change, I don’t see the point. The premium is about $250/month, but I’ve been paying $750/month because I thought it was a good investment strategy. Despite that, I still have a negative surrender value, and all that extra money seems gone.
I feel like I messed up by not getting a term life policy and investing the rest in a brokerage account. I can’t change that now, but I was young and naive, and I’m sure my financial advisor saw that. My cash value is about $18,000, but the surrender value is negative $9,500.
Should I just cut my losses, surrender the policy, and rework my investments? Or should I keep it and maybe reduce the death benefit? I don’t feel like I can trust my financial advisor anymore after realizing what she sold me, but otherwise, I’ve been happy with her. What would you do in my situation?